When asked to write about an incident that changed my life, at first I thought, now that’s quite easy. Then, at the dining table, a realisation struck me. Over breakfast, we were sharing the news of people who we knew passing away.
Extramarital affairs happen for many, many reasons. Sexuality is a complex experience shared by two people and there are a range of motivations why people indulge in extramarital sex. In this case, the woman wanted sexual validation and seek revenge on her philandering husband.
Ageing is a very personal process, and it affects different people differently. However, over the years I have realized that there are some habits or practices that can help the process of ageing a beautiful experience. Here are some of my tried and tested suggestions.
How many times have you felt hurt or angry at the way your partner spoke, or didn’t speak? How often have you lamented, ‘you don’t understand.’ And the biggest challenge of them all—how to say something that you know won’t go down well, but needs to be said anyway?
In our own mind, we are often justified in what we say and do, but it is important, every now and then, to assess whether or where we ourselves might be hurting those we love. These relationship-repair reminders can help you course-correct.
Friends come in all shapes, sizes and temperaments. They may seem to be birds of your feather, but ruffle those feathers a bit and you might find that each one is different; a product of a mixed bag of conditioning, environment and life’s lessons.